The Art of Hygge

When winter comes I really get into the whole hibernation thing. You know what I mean? Scented candles, blankets, red wine, pillows, Netflix, stew with dumplings. Think of the inside of Father Christmas’s house crossed with a Diptyque x Habitat x Le Creuset concession and you’re just about there.

Until this year I thought the big love I had for hibernation was laziness more than anything. Like, really Alice? You spend your evenings in leggings and big socks cuddling up to multiple hot water bottles? What a slob.

But then I read about the notion of ‘Hygge’ in Helen Russell’s The Year Of Living Danishly and realised, duh, inside me there’s just a cosy Dane trying to get out. I’m not actually lazy at all!

You see, the Danes (who are incidentally the happiest of nations according to statistics) have a movement called ‘Hygge’ which is apparently difficult to translate into English but more or less means “the absence of anything annoying or emotionally overwhelming; taking pleasure from the presence of gentle, soothing things”.

This little word may be pronounced ‘heurgha’ as if you’re coughing up phlegm (cosy, that is not) but it seems to embody everything that’s warming and lovely about the winter. If I think ‘Hygge’ right now I can see my favourite vanilla candle, a good book, cosy corners lit with lamps, my knitted blanket and, in place of a woodburner, an HD fire on the telly. So modern.

(Try it, I promise it’ll make your evening warmer)

Which is why this year I have been embracing my internal slob, I mean, my internal Dane. I’ve thrown out my old ratty leggings, fixed my bobbled cashmere and embraced the comfy clothes. I’m no longer ashamed of lounging round the house in my PJs (because I have fancy new ones) and I can just about get away with wearing my new Hygge wardrobe on the school run. I’ve realised that you don’t have to wear uncomfortable clothes to look pulled-together, sometimes a carefully curated combo of lycra and jersey work too! And my poor legs, previously clad in restrictive skinny jean denim, are all the more thankful for it.

In addition, as a huge bonus, I’ve noticed since I stopped shying away from feeling lazy for putting my PJs on at 8pm I’ve become way more relaxed, peaceful and plain happy.

Firstly: huge thanks to Verry Kerry for sending me a gorgeous kimono dressing gown to kick-off the cosy living. I usually bowl round the house in a battered Primark number with one of many old and ratty band tshirts and my baggy pregnancy knickers underneath (is it any wonder I don’t have a boyfriend?!), but having such a gorgeous dressing gown to slip into every evening and morning has completely changed the way I feel about what I sleep in. I even own nighties now!

Secondly: get yourself to the following shops. This Hygge-wear is unrivalled, says this reformed lazy slob; here are my picks for the (cosy winter) season.


Short Kimono Dressing Gown, £95, Verry Kerry. Jersey Pants, £24.99 (sale!), Gap. Cross-back vest (I have these in every single colour), £12.99, GapFit.  Fleece Trousers, £39.95, GapFit. Nike Roshe Run Trainers, £69.99, Office (I WANT these in every single colour). Essence of Arcadia Essential Oils starter kit, £19.99, Essence of Arcadia (I mix the lavender with coconut oil for a gorgeous before-bed moisturiser). Knitted Jumper, £14.99, H&M (my current favourite!). Clear Intention Pendant, from £185, Rock and Raw jewellery.

Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.


  1. Carie @ Space for the Butterflies wrote:

    Oh now I’m longing for the warmth of the real thing! I think I can definitely get behind the concept of hygge, it’s got quilts and snowflake knitwear written all over it!!

    Posted 11.24.15 Reply
    • alice wrote:

      I know what you mean – an actual fire is the DREAM

      Posted 11.25.15 Reply
  2. Jojo Humes Brown wrote:

    Me too Alice…I have recently read this novel and loved it…Let’s book a flight and escape to Jutland! We can build Lego in our cashmere onesies by candle light, join a few clubs, and eat our body weight in pastries…and we will be happy.

    Posted 11.25.15 Reply
    • alice wrote:

      That literally sounds IDEAL. Mostly the pastries. And the Lego.

      Posted 11.25.15 Reply
  3. Mama wrote:

    I feel much happier now that ‘wearing pjs from the minute you get home and generally acting like an OAP’ has a posh cool name. Bring on the Horlicks!

    Posted 11.25.15 Reply
    • alice wrote:

      especially as now they use Horlicks in all sorts of fancy recipes these days. It’s totally acceptable now!

      Posted 11.26.15 Reply
  4. Becky | Spirited Puddle Jumper wrote:

    I need some decent loungewear, considering I spend a great deal of time at home in it!

    Posted 11.25.15 Reply
    • alice wrote:

      decent loungewear has revolutionised my life ;)

      Posted 11.26.15 Reply
  5. Lottie :: Oyster and Pearl wrote:

    Ooh, I want all those picks! But especially the fleecy trousers. Is A Year of Living Danishly good? I’ve been recommended it a few times, might be time to give it a read.

    Posted 11.25.15 Reply
    • alice wrote:

      It’s really good Lottie! Made me think on a few ways re: how we live here. Highly recommended. x

      Posted 11.26.15 Reply
  6. Fritha wrote:

    I love the look of these dressing gowns I find it SO hard to find one I like, in fact I don’t think I ever have done yet! x

    Posted 11.26.15 Reply
  7. Metropolitan Mum wrote:

    HAHAHA! You’ve nailed Danish to a T! It definitely sounds like someone is coughing up phlegm. Btw, the Swedes have something called ‘mysigt’. Which is cozy & comfortable and a bit lazy all in one. We have been getting very mysig here recently. You should come. The guys are feminists without even realising it, and even single mums are allowed to have a sex life ;-) Dxx

    Posted 11.26.15 Reply
  8. Laura wrote:

    How do I get this fake fire on my TV?! I NEED IT.

    Posted 11.26.15 Reply
  9. Heaven wrote:

    This is the perfect way to break down this inaromftion.

    Posted 4.20.16 Reply